Ryan Weaber and his wife Cee Jay are passive conservationists.
They like to live off the land as much as they can. Ryan hunts and they grow vegetables together in a garden in the backyard of their Palmyra home.
Because they both lead active lifestyles, they enjoy eating at home. They donโt really go out to eat all that often.
But the Weabers didnโt start Virtual Dinner Party with their stomachs. They started it with their heads โ and their hearts.
โItโs about supporting local businesses,โ said Ryan Weaber. โItโs not just about the owners, itโs also the waitresses and bartenders who are hurting. Itโs for the people who rely on this for their incomes.
โThis could close some local restaurants,โ continued Weaber. โThatโs what weโre trying to prevent. That was the driving force behind it. My wife and I arenโt collecting anything. We donโt want to see that happen to families. Theyโre small businesses. Many donโt have extra money.โ
The Weabers’ Virtual Dinner Party is just another example of local people stepping up to help other local people in this time of the COVID-19 pandemic.
The Weabers created Virtual Dinner Party as a group on Facebook, as a way to help local restaurants financially and to keep people connected in this time of coronavirus. Restaurants can post menus, pictures of their dishes and their current specials and services, while patrons can share their take-out experiences and reviews of the food theyโve purchased, all from the isolated comfort of their own homes. At the time of this article, the group was approaching 1,900 members.
Since putting the concept into action three weeks ago, the Weabers have eaten out every day, either through pick-up or delivery.
โPeople can go wherever they want, take pictures of their food and post their pictures,โ said Ryan Weaber. โMy wife and I make menus and what weโre going to eat. Weโre inviting people to do the same things and eat together. Everybody can talk and hang out. We post our schedule for the week and try to get food from a lot of different businesses.”
Humans are social creatures by nature, Weaber said. Being with other people is an important part of the human experience. Virtual Dinner Party allows people to connect in times of isolation.
โEveryoneโs stuck at home,โ Weaber said. “[This] gives them something to look forward to at the end of the day.โ
Virtual Dinner Party is continuing to gain traction and steam.
Currently, there are more than 30 local restaurants and businesses participating, and the group has about 1,500 members. The Weabers started the group with people they know and restaurants they frequent, but it has expanded to people outside their circle and all across Lebanon County.
Virtual Dinner Party has provided local restaurants with a way to inform local patrons that they are still open for business. Some have even donated gift cards to the cause.
โThereโs been a ton of local restaurants that have been active,โ said Weaber, a 37-year-old graduate of Cedar Crest High School. โI think people are enjoying it very much. Thereโs a lot of engagement. You have people saying, โOh, my gosh, that looks so good.โ All the businesses who have been involved tell me, โThank you so much.โ Some of the restaurants have reached out to me personally.
โWhatโs good about it is people sharing how much they want to keep them open,โ added Weaber. โJust the thanks from the restaurants. We didnโt do it for that reason, but itโs great to see weโre making a difference.โ
As part of Governor Tom Wolfโs stay-at-home order, local restaurants were compelled to close the dine-in portions of their businesses on March 17. Two days later, the Weabers put Virtual Dinner Party into action.
โMy wife and I started it on a Thursday, when everything shut down,โ said Weaber. โWhat weโve done is invite friends and everybody else to order out. Itโs not just for the owners, but also for the waiters, waitresses and bartenders to have a job to come back to. The restaurants have been super receptive.
โWe were watching the news when they said they were going to shut down local businesses,โ Weaber added. โI said to my wife, โWeโve got to do something.โ We cook at home. We never went out. But weโve ordered out every night since. Weโre practicing what weโre preaching.โ
Because we are all increasingly leading active lives, more and more people have been relying on dining out and restaurants as a way of providing meals. Lebanon County is home to many great eateries, preparing a variety of unique and delicious dishes.
โThe dynamic of the family has changed,โ said Weaber. โMom and dad both work. They donโt want to come home and cook. Every night we do go out and eat, restaurants are pretty full. People do go out and eat a lot.
โAs long as thereโs a need, Iโm going to keep doing it,โ continued Weaber. โItโs kind of become a part-time job, just posting on Facebook, taking phone calls and answering messages.โ
Both Weaber and his wife are active nurses. Not only is it their profession, itโs part of their nature and character.
โWe work in healthcare,โ said Weaber. โWeโre still getting a paycheck. Instead of donating to a charity, weโre getting a meal. Itโs our way of giving back, and we can at this point. I guess this comes from the fact that Iโm a nurse by trade. I want to continue taking care of people. Weโre doing well. It (COVID-19) hasnโt changed our day-to-day life.”
โSince Iโve been a nurse, Iโve seen a couple of different viruses,โ added Weaber. โNone of that even comes close to this. This is going to change our economy and the face of healthcare forever. Itโs going to change our way of life. Itโs made us all grateful for our families.โ
And the best way to get through it is together.
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