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Wenda Dinatale is a soldier in Godโ€™s army.

Sheโ€™s not a corporal or a private. Sheโ€™s more like a sergeant or a lieutenant.

She makes many of her own decisions. And while she does have a general she must answer to, she only takes orders from the Supreme Commander.

Dinatale relishes hand-to-hand combat, she enjoys being on the front lines. Thatโ€™s where she can do the most good.

Her weapons are wisdom, compassion, and spirituality; the enemies are hunger, poverty, and homelessness. The war is real and Dinatale is well-armed, but ultimately what sheโ€™s fighting for is souls.

โ€œIโ€™ve told Lily (Morales), Troy (Williams), and Bryan (Smith), โ€˜Youโ€™re not my boss. Youโ€™re my executive director. I answer to Jesus,โ€™โ€ said Dinatale.

โ€œNo! Not for a million dollars (would she ever want to be an executive director),โ€ continued Dinatale. โ€œThat would remove me from the people Iโ€™ve been called to serve. I canโ€™t do what I do without an executive director. But I donโ€™t think an executive director can do what they do without me. This is a family unit weโ€™ve got going on here. We donโ€™t operate in black-and-white rules or black-and-white roles.โ€

Dinataleโ€™s current official title at Lebanon County Christian Ministries (LCCM) is Director of Programs and Services. She has worn and continues to wear many hats for one of Lebanon Countyโ€™s most critical and essential nonprofits.

Dinatale at her place of work, doing her life’s purpose.

As for her heart? Well, she wears that on her sleeve.

Dinatale is the heart, soul, and backbone of LCCM, which is located at 250 South Seventh St. in the city. That makes the 60 year old Swatara Twp. resident one of the top social workers in Lebanon County.

The face of the newest LCCM building.
People can donate food and clothing to LCCM during their business hours.

โ€œItโ€™s kind of like Iโ€™m just the mom,โ€ said Dinatale. โ€œYou make sure everyoneโ€™s on task and doing it with the right attitude. Youโ€™re helping them with personal problems, encouraging everyone, and reminding them who they serve. I just love the people I serve. Iโ€™ve always said, if I ever lose my compassion, itโ€™s time to leave.โ€

โ€œItโ€™s kind of like, โ€˜What do you want out of your mother?โ€™โ€ said Smith, LCCMโ€™s third executive director under whom Dinatale has toiled. โ€œWhen youโ€™re a young child, you want comfort and knowledge. Then, sheโ€™s going to show you that she knows what sheโ€™s talking about. Sheโ€™s going to give you tough love when you need it. Sheโ€™s touching more than just the lives of the people who come to LCCM.โ€

Dinatale has her hands in every emergency service that LCCM provides, from the free noon meal program to the Lebanon County food bank, from the Lebanon County clothing bank to the government surplus food program, from the emergency shelter to the utility assistance program. Sheโ€™s part counselor, part chef, part administrator, and part mentor.

Dinatale in LCCM’s Noon Meal kitchen.

While Dinataleโ€™s role at LCCM changes daily, she has served the ministry in the official capacities as Client Service Manager and Noon Meal Coordinator in the past. In some ways, LCCM has changed her title to match Dinataleโ€™s unique talents and skill set.

โ€œIโ€™m LCCM 24/7,โ€ said Dinatale, who attended Tulpehocken High School. โ€œItโ€™s my assignment. Itโ€™s what Iโ€™m purposed to do. Is it easy? No. I operate my family the same way. I have an open-door policy at my house. The clients, the staff, itโ€™s all family. If they need to be snapped in, Iโ€™m willing to do it.โ€

โ€œWhat makes us unique is that we connect with people and their most basic needs,โ€ Dinatale added. โ€œWe share a part of life with them. We celebrate with them when they overcome obstacles. LCCM is relational. We build relationships. The success stories are part of LCCMโ€™s legacy. Itโ€™s not about the building. Itโ€™s about the people.โ€

โ€œI think the big take is that sheโ€™s a grassroots individual,โ€ said Smith of Dinatale. โ€œShe doesnโ€™t want to sit in her office. She wants to be where things are getting done. If you expect to show up and see her in her office, youโ€™re probably going to miss her.โ€

Dinatale in LCCM’s clothing bank.

Dinataleโ€™s empathy is rooted in life experiences. She cares deeply because she has endured many of the same things that LCCMโ€™s clients are currently going through.

Dinatale first came to LCCM in 2000, as a client.

โ€œAt that time, I was still what I consider a ‘baby Christian,’ but I knew I needed to work in a Christian atmosphere,โ€ said Dinatale. โ€œI applied for jobs at many faith-based organizations, but nothing worked out. There was no food in the house and we were struggling. I had never used a food bank in my life. It was very humbling.โ€

โ€œI was paging through the phone book and there was LCCMโ€™s number,โ€ Dinatale continued. โ€œWhen I called they said, โ€˜Get in here as soon as possible.โ€™ During the interview for food services, I mentioned I was going to HACC and I had one class under my belt. As we were talking, Lily (then Executive Director, Morales) said, โ€˜I just happen to have a position open.โ€™ Afterward, Lily told me, โ€˜I knew you were the one. I knew you had to be here.โ€™ I started as the noon meal coordinator part-time, and, in three months, I went full-time.โ€

A sign in LCCM of The Lord’s Prayer.

Over the past 21 years, LCCM has evolved to meet the ever-changing needs of the Lebanon community. And as LCCM has grown, so has Dinatale.

โ€œMy level of gratitude for being able to serve people who walked the same path I did has grown,โ€ said Dinatale. โ€œThat appreciation has grown because Iโ€™ve been able to share it with the rest of the staff. Iโ€™m grateful for the opportunity to serve. Iโ€™m more confident. My faith has grown immensely. You have to have broad shoulders and thick skin to do this job.โ€

Everyoneโ€™s gone through something. We have to help each other along the way.

โ€œSince I started here, we moved into a new building, and itโ€™s allowed for the expansion of existing services and the growth to incorporate new services,โ€ Dinatale added. โ€œItโ€™s allowed us to expand what we can make available. But whatโ€™s been really cool over the last couple of years is the increased collaborations with other agencies. Everyone used to be stand-alone, now weโ€™re collaborating. The need has become the focus. Weโ€™re looking at the greater good.โ€

Due to the size of her heart, Dinatale walks a fine line every day, the line between caring and becoming emotionally involved with the people she serves. To Dinatale, everyone is equal and everybody matters.

When asked about the sheer number of people she’s helped, Dinatale said, โ€œI try not to think about that. That makes Wenda soft. When I think of that, itโ€™s so humbling. I love people because theyโ€™re them, not because of what they can do for me. Nobody comes through LCCMโ€™s door haphazardly – not clients, not employees, not supporters. Thereโ€™s a purpose for it all.โ€

โ€œIโ€™m relatable and I care,โ€ continued Dinatale. โ€œIโ€™m going to ask them (clients) about themselves and their lives. I see them. I hear them. But most of all, I care about them. Itโ€™s about the personal connection. Itโ€™s relational. It all goes back to that. But I also think God has given me a gift of discernment.โ€

Dinatale in LCCM’s food bank.

โ€œIโ€™m still a baby in my role, but Iโ€™ve leaned heavily on her for history and institutional knowledge,โ€ said Smith. โ€œSheโ€™s steadfast in what sheโ€™s there to do. She brings such a unique perspective to the position. She completely believes in her servant role. She believes her purpose on earth is to be used. Sheโ€™s a special person to many people.โ€

Dinatale exudes the energy of a person half her age. But, make no mistake about the long-term emotional and mental toll that her intense compassion for others can take on oneโ€™s being.

โ€œAt this time of my life, Iโ€™m looking toward retirement in the next six or seven years,โ€ said Dinatale. โ€œIโ€™d love to make sure LCCM is taken care of. But I will never be done serving, whether itโ€™s at LCCM or in my personal life. Iโ€™m 60 years old, and my mission isnโ€™t done yet. There will just be another assignment, wherever I go. The hardest part for me was to learn to delegate. Now, I have to go into more of a teacher or a mentor role.โ€

โ€œYou might be a victim, but youโ€™ll learn to survive, and victory will come to the overcomer,โ€ concluded Dinatale. โ€œI believe we all have to get outside of ourselves. I think itโ€™s important to recognize the similarities, but downplay the differences – or embrace the differences. I truly wish each person who Iโ€™ve come in contact with would reach their full potential.โ€

Certainly, the ability to make every life you touch a little better is a special gift.

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Jeff Falk is a seasoned journalist based in Lebanon, PA. He's a graduate of Cedar Crest High School, Penn State University, and a lifelong resident of Lebanon, born and raised. Currently, he is a feature writer for Engle Publishing in Lancaster, the editor of LebCoSports.com, sports director at WLBR...